I can imagine indeed!
Oh that is a very good outtake. Olive tree has many meanings indeed and one of them is eternity due to the perennial nature of the tree so love is also one of the ideas one can get from it. I agree.
Indeed the Polyphemus incident one can definitely analyze it as an act of love. His love for home for starters for his wife and child he longs to see and of course the love for his comrades (both living and fallen ones). One can definitely say that. This is a very good analysis.
Oh same! The bed is absolutely the most iconic to me as well. For starters I agree. Odysseus doesn’t simply respond with “that’s impossible” when Penelope tells her servants to “make the bed outside the chamber” but he is in shock and almost in fear that “how is it possible? Did anyone uproot the tree?” Because the tree was alive and rooted. He even describes with how much love he carved it with his own hands. The roots were tye symbol of his roots to his homeland and his love for his wife. The very idea of it being uprooted seems indeed to be like someone severing his bond with those two things he loved so much.
The olive tree was the symbol of his eternal love and bond to his homeland and yes the fact that it was for the marriage bed makes that symbolism even stronger in that aspect. Olive is also a symbol of peace and truce which is what Odysseus will try to form after the murder of the suitors. Is also a symbol of victory (Olympic games had a crown of wild olive as a price) so it is also Odysseus winning against all odds and coming back where his roots sprout; to his homeland and family